How to Keep the Romance in your Relationship

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If finding love is a tricky affair, keeping the romance in your relationship alive is even more challenging. Is it really practical to keep the romance and passion alive after five, ten, or 20 years together?

Yes, it’s absolutely possible. To keep the romance in your relationship alive-no matter how long you’ve been together-you need to give each other a healthy daily dose of attention, affection and appreciation. So, here are 6 things you can immediately try to get back the spark and enthusiasm in your relationship.

Touch and embrace regularly

So many couples stop touching, holding, or kissing each other until they feel the desire for sex. Research has shown that holding hands reduces stress and affectionate touching increases the feel-good hormones in the body. Therefore, even a simple hug daily is actually beneficial for your overall health and well-being. Stroke your partner’s shoulder or arm softly as you both walk by. Hold hands. Kiss your partner for 20 seconds when they’re leaving for the office or when they come back. Affection is a great way to get intimate outside the bedroom.

Shower your partner with praise

Offer a hug, say “thank you”, compliment your partner-anything that shows you value and acknowledge how important your partner is to you.  Accentuating what’s good in the relationship and in each other, as well as the positives is great for your relationship. When you appreciate the positive things in your life, more of these things come to you.

Express your affection in small ways

Try the following: Call, text or email to say you’re thinking of them. Place a love note stuck in their briefcase, purse, pillow, or book they are reading. Bring your partner a special gift you know they’ll love. Create a list of reasons why you appreciate and love them and whisper them into their ear. Little gestures often make the best impression.

Get time for yourselves, individually

Both of you need to be independent people and this means that both of you need your own lives, aside from indulging each other’s needs and interests. A relationship requires some spark to stay alive, and if you don’t have your own life to keep the conversation alive and keep you fulfilled, your relationship can quickly go stale.

Also, we all need space and time to ourselves as no relationship can succeed if we’re together constantly.

Shake things up

Break the boredom that often plagues relationships by doing or learning something new together. Sharing things of mutual interest helps cement relationships and creates happiness. Rent a bike for two, go ice skating, learn salsa, rent roller blades, take a full moon hike, or celebrate a special anniversary together-like the first day you went out together. It’s amazing what leaving your usual routine and getting out of your comfort zone can do for your relationship.

Taking time to keep the romance in your relationship alive is essential for creating a happy, fulfilling love life. You might think that your ideas are foolish but your partner will be happy that you spent time doing something romantic for them. It is the thought that counts, after all. If you are looking for more great tips on how to keep the spark alive in your relationship, be sure to visit