We all know the scenario, you’ve been out on a few dates, there seems to be a spark, so when is it time to take your relationship to the next level? Fortunately, there are a few key signs to lookout for which may answer the timeless tale of when to have sex.
First, it is important to discuss a few prerequisites to sex. Before considering sex or when to have sex, make sure you understand the risks and ways in which you can protect yourself. Obviously, the best barrier is contraception such as condoms as birth control will not prevent against infection.
It is also important to note that it is not necessary to have sex with someone in order to feel a physical connection. There are lots of steps leading up to sex that can be explored. Such activities include kissing, hugging, etc.
Ok enough of that. Check out this quick video on how to make love to a woman and then continue reading to learn how to determine if your partner is interested in having sex.
Now that I have your attention, let’s discuss a few signs that will help you know your partner may be ready for sex. Perhaps the biggest telltale sign that things are ready to progress is if your partner is talking about sex more often. Whether they’re talking about friends that are having sex, asking questions about sex, whatever the topic may be if they’re talking about it then sex is on their mind. They may even ask questions about your bed or make remarks about the bedroom.
If your partner suddenly wants to be alone with you or invites you over all of the time, then this is another good sign that they may want to have sex. This also includes him or her wanting to spend the night at your place, or just generally doing anything that involves them being alone with you for an extended period of time.
Another good indicator of when to have sex are the physical actions of your partner. If they have been getting more physical such as always touching, having their arms around your waist, this usually means that they’re becoming more comfortable around you.
Sex usually only happens if someone feels comfortable, so this is obviously a good sign. This also includes your partner talking about your physical attributes, if they are noticing you then that is an excellent sign that things are ready to progress.
If your partner is subtlety aroused then that indicates sex could be in the very near future. Thankfully, there are a few ways to tell if your partner is aroused without asking or witnessing obvious signs. One such example is the pupils, if the black center goes from small to large that means something has excited them.
Also, pay attention to the pitch of their voice. When someone is turned on, they tend to speak in a lower pitch of their voice and speak in a soft and sexy manner. Another visual cue is if they often rub their lips together in your presence and they are sitting on the edge of their seat as if they’re ready to pounce.
The body will send out subtle signals that are hard to control and some reactions will be natural. If they are thinking about sex or when to have sex then their breath will become more urgent and rapid and this impulse is nearly impossible to control or fake. On the other hand, the body also sends out signals that now is not the right time. For example, if you’re kissing and it never progresses to a French kiss or something else, it’s probably not the right time.
Finally, the big step is to just simply ask. As awkward as this sounds, it may very well work and either open up the door to something amazing or it will slam shut in your face. However, if you decide to ask, make sure the setting is appropriate and romantic as you want the mood to be just right. If you don’t want to come right out and ask, then just mention that you’re feeling turned on to see the reaction of your partner.
If he or she does not act interested, simply respect that decision and state that they’re worth the wait. You certainly don’t want to come off bitter or act harshly, it’s best to continue on as you have been until that magical moment arrives.
Overall, just be patient and don’t rush things. When the time is right it will happen, and the suspense leading up to the event can often be just enjoyable as the fireworks themselves. Until it happens, make the most of the time spent together and have fun!
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