Today we are going to discuss how to make a woman a cum (orgasm). If you are not familiar with how to do it, do not worry because we are going to take you by hand and teach you step by step. Before we get started, if you are more of an audio visual learner, you can simply watch the video below.
Let’s talk through each of the steps until we cover them all.
Step 1- Mental Foreplay
The first step in the process is to establish a mental connection with her. Sex is a lot more than penetration, it is deeper than that. No pun intended. If a woman’s mind in not fully engaged in the process, it will be a lot harder to accomplish the task at hand. Mental foreplay does not begin shortly before sex. It is an ongoing process that should be taking place throughout the day. This involves things like providing her with compliments, gifts or just being nice in general. Basically just showing her how much you care about her. If you have properly stimulated her mind, you are clear to move on to the next step.
Step 2- Physical Foreplay
Now the fun begins. Physical foreplay involves kissing, touching, licking, sucking etc etc. Start off slow by gently running your fingers through her hair. Gradually work your way down to her back and rub it with your finger tips. Kiss her on the neck and tell her how much you love and appreciate her. Slowly caress her breasts, inner thighs and clit. Before you know it she will be begging you to get inside of her, but before you do. Move on to step 3.
Step 3- Oral Sex
Your first thought may be to skip this step, but if you do, you will be making a big mistake. Think of oral sex as another way to prepare her for the best orgasm she has ever had. You want her body to be so ready for your cock that she explodes all over you the second you put it in. That is exactly why you need to be patient. Drop down on her and slowly stimulate her clit with your tongue to get her even more excited. With your palm facing upwards, insert your middle and index finger into her vagina. Now slowly curve your fingers back towards yourself as if you were telling someone to “come over here.” If you are doing it correctly her body language will definitely let you know. It is ok to continue doing this until she has an orgasm, but your goal is to do this through penetration and not with your tongue. Now you are ready for step 4.
Step 4- Get To Strokin’
At this point you are probably rock hard and ready to go. You are just as excited as she is. Slow your roll there buddy, because if you go in guns blazing you will blow your load very quickly and basically eliminate all the hard work you just put in to prepare. Take a deep breathe because the battle is about to begin. Keep in mind she is already to the point of explosion so you should not have to do too much, but keep in mind this is about pleasuring her first.
Lay on top of her in the missionary position. Insert your manhood and SLOWLY stroke her vagina, pick up the pace of your stroke just a little and keep it steady. Try to drag your pelvis across her waist as you stroke, this will help your body rub her clit as well. The combination of the two will lead to a great orgasm for her.